Are You Committing Sales Malpractice Because of Your Customer Relationships?

Forging relationships with customers is an importantforward is not a good sales call-it's just a visit, and
part of effective selling. People are more likely to buyfrom a sales perspective, it is little more than blind
from you when they know you, like you and trusthope and often just a waste of the prospect's and
you. Relationships are important in sales, butthe salesperson's time. Try hitting quota with "I'll think
sometimes salespeople allow relationships to interfereabout it."
with the sales process.2. Now let's discuss the second excuse, when
What is your main job as a sales professional? This issalespeople don't want to be pushy. Sales people are
a simple question, yet when I ask it to participants inlabeled as pushy when all they do is ask the prospect
my medical sales seminars I often hear complicatedto buy without establishing any real reason for the
answers including, "My job is to educate customersprospect to do so. Pushy sales people don't
about my products to help them take care of theirdemonstrate any concern for the prospect's real
patients, show them how to use the products,needs or feelings. Pushy sales people don't handle
handle any problems, and build good customerobjections constructively, they just challenge the
relationships." No question, these duties are all part ofprospect's point of view (essentially telling the
the job, but again, what is a salesperson's main jobprospect that he is wrong!) and again ask them to
function? The answer is to sell!buy. When you behave like that, you are being
Salespeople often confuse sales support activitiespushy! However, when you ask for the sale because
such as those described in the preceding paragraphyou have established that your product or service will
as selling. Addressing the customer's needs isenable the prospect to do what he or she does or
important, but selling means bringing in additionalwants to do better, more easily, with less risk, or for
business. Some salespeople are uncomfortable askingless money, is that being pushy? Of course not-it's
customers with whom they have close relationshipsbeing professional, because you are acting in the
for a commitment to buy, so instead, they behavecustomer's best interest, not just your own.
as customer service reps and wait for the customersWhen someone says that they don't want to be
to buy on their own. These salespeople areperceived as a pushy salesperson, I believe that they
unnecessarily leaving a lot of money on the table andjust don't want to be perceived as a salesperson,
stunting their sales growth because they don't thinkperiod. Many even go to great lengths to avoid being
they need to ask for the business with their closecalled a salesperson. Instead, they or their companies
customers or are afraid to do so.call them territory mangers, technical consultants,
Too often, I observe the following scenario when Iagents, or any other phrase that sounds more
ride along on sales calls. A sales representativecustomer-oriented and less sales-oriented. The truth
delivers a good presentation only to have it fizzleis that your customers, especially the ones that you
with a dialog that sounds something like this:are close to, know what you get paid to do.
Prospect: That looks like a nice product. Thank youTherefore, if you ask them to evaluate or buy a
for showing it to me.product that you have demonstrated is right for
Sales Rep: No problem. Thank you for your time. Givethem, they won't be shocked or dismayed; in fact,
me a call if you want to try it.they expect you to ask because it's your job.
I think it's pretty obvious what is missing here-theLet's turn the tables for a moment. Imagine you go
sales person let the prospect off the hook by notto a doctor who happens to be a friend of yours.
asking for a commitment. Often, they don't even askSuppose the doctor diagnoses a problem that you
the prospect for an opinion about the product orhave and says, "There is a pill that can solve your
service to determine if it is even being considered.health problem. Call me if you want to try it. Thanks
Salespeople know that they are supposed to ask forfor coming to see me." How would you feel knowing
the business, but all too often, they don't. Why?that your doctor/friend had something that could
When I debrief sales calls like the one above and askimprove your condition, but didn't offer to prescribe it
the salespeople involved why they did not ask forbecause he didn't want you to think that he was a
the sale, I commonly hear the following two excuses:pill-pusher? Do you think that you might be a little
Excuse number 1: The sales person believes that hisupset if you suffered unnecessarily because your
job is to show the product or service to the"friend" was more concerned about what you
prospect. If the prospect wants the product, he willthought about him than he was about solving your
say so, either now or later. Hence, there is no needhealth problem?
to ask for the business-it will come in due time whenIt is considered malpractice in the medical world when
the customer is ready.a doctor fails to do what is expected of him
Excuse number 2: The sales person doesn't want toprofessionally, for example, failing to offer or
seem "pushy" and thereby harm the relationship orrecommend an appropriate treatment option to a
compromise any future opportunities to sell to thatpatient. In the sales world, salespeople commit sales
prospect.malpractice when they don't specifically offer their
1. Let's discuss the first excuse. Sales calls oftencustomers the opportunity to improve their condition
proceed without challenge, i.e. the prospect neveror situation.
raises an objection or says that he won't buy. ItYes, building relationships is important, but don't let
feels like a successful sales call when the salespersonthose relationships keep you from doing your job.
assumes that the order will come in time and manyYour job is to help your prospects and customers
don't want to compromise that good feeling byassess whether or not your product or service is a
testing the assumption.good fit for them, and if so, help them to get it.
What if a prospect has thoughts, beliefs, andWhen you fail to do everything that is ethically
misunderstandings about your product that ispossible to achieve this, you are committing sales
preventing him from buying? Wouldn't you like tomalpractice. Relationships are strengthened by looking
know about it? How does the prospect feel aboutout for your customer's best interest, not by
your product or service as compared to what he isavoiding your own discomfort in being perceived as a
currently using? Under what circumstances would hesalesperson or fearing the customer will be insulted if
consider using your product or service? If theyou ask them to move forward. Always invite the
prospect doesn't volunteer this important information,customer to buy when it's appropriate, and when
it's the salesperson's job to ask!they say no, find out why and make sure their
Salespeople often leave a sales call with a feeling ofreason for not buying is valid and unsolvable before
accomplishment because they heard "I'll think aboutyou walk away. Relationship selling is still selling, and
it" or "Thank you for showing me your product."that means getting the order, or attempting to move
Spending time with a prospect without closing thethe sale forward on every call.
sale, or getting a commitment to move the sale